One of the most common things my clients or inquiries will share with me is this:
"I'm sorry we're really awkward in front of the camera." And I truly believe everyone has this feeling–even I feel this way after modeling a LOT in front of the camera (and being a photographer!). But every time I'm told this, I just keep thinking to myself: "No, you're not."

You're not awkward in front of the camera. You are nervous of being awkward, doing something "stupid," or not looking "right" in front of the camera.Maybe this is your first session ever. Maybe you don't know what to expect, and these thoughts don't make you nervous. They make you vulnerable, which is exactly what a true photo session should be about. That doesn't mean it's also not daunting.

Comfort Creates Connection (And Better Photos)

Why Feeling comfortable matters more than not feeling awkward in front of the camera

The truth is, cinematic photos aren't created because someone knows how to perfectly pose, or because they have the perfect body or face. They're created when people feel safe enough to let their guard down. To be authentically theirselves, grounded in their personality and when they stop worrying about the camera and start focusing on each other. For couples, allowing the session to feel like a date can be really empowering too. The natural setting of somewhere familiar can really allow for your authenticity to shine. The romantic gestures, sweet little physical touches, even conversations can seem to flow easier too. 

But really, these feelings of comfort and safety stem from knowing who your photographer is and having a connection with them–not just their camera.

Imagine your photographer spends the first 10 minutes of your session creating meaningful conversation with you and your partner–no camera in hand. They're attentive, enthusiastic about where your live is/heading, and they walk through how to session is going to go.

This simple act changes everything.

You're not walking into the session with a camera immediately pointed at you. You're building trust. Setting intention. Creating expectations. All while relaxing and allowing time to calm your mind and body before any photos are actually documented.

My goal is to create an environment where you feel comfortable to be yourself. A space where you feel seen, cared for, and not only safe, but also excited. Because truthfully the photos you end up loving most usually aren't the ones where everything was perfect. They're the ones where you're fully present in the moment.

You don't need to learn how to stop being awkward. You need to give yourself permission to be comfortable.

If you have ever felt nervous, or feel nervous about getting your photos taken, let this be your reminder that you don't need to be more photogenic, more confident, more beautiful, or less awkward. You just need space to be yourself.